pomeroy, shai

[shai]

shai mikel pomeroy ,

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obnoxious. defensive. lover

father, father, tell me where have you been? it's been hell not having you here. i've been missing you so bad and you don't even care.

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SLEEPING WITH SIRENS → a trophy father's trophy son

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so, care to gimme the lowdown on yourself, shai?

wait, you're asking my to talk about myself? shit, usually people tell me to shut up. [shrugs] i'm not into myself or whatever, i just talk a fuckton and it annoys people. oh, probably because i swear every other sentence. i realise i need to watch that now, you know? profound sinners is actually raising to the top and we've got a lot of people looking up to us, watching us as we make it big. or something. i guess i've just got the kind of personality that rubs people the wrong way. i'm brash and abrasive and i speak my mind. i hardly ever watch what i say and then i catch myself talking and i'm like, "wait, you can't fucking say that around these people." [laughs] see what i did there? i've just got that presence that makes people excited i'm there or wish i'd leave already. it doesn't bother me, because if you're going to like me, then you're going to like me. if not, then you're just missing out. i try to get along with everyone, maybe a bit too much. we're rockstars, you know? i embrace the life. yeah, i do everything a little too big, but hey, you've gotta have fun with things. i'm kind of a lady killer, i suppose. 'cept, it's not just with the women. [smirks] i like both genders, what's not to love? i don't to relationships. i just don't want to go there. life is about the music right now, not trying to concentrate on being a decent boyfriend, but i let everyone i'm with know that it's a one time thing, so hopefully i don't break too many hearts.

awesome. mind if i ask about your family? what are they like? and tell me a little about your past, too.

my mother is my hero. [grins] i don't mean that in some cheesy, "this is what i'm supposed to say, so shout out to momma!" kind of way, either. i've got five other siblings. i'm the second oldest and i had to watch my mom struggle everyday, just to keep us afloat. my dad kinda just.. skipped town after her last child was born, but it wasn't like he was around much before then anyway. she refused to let any of us help her raise us. she was too proud. the one thing i really got from her was to never stop working for what you want. she wanted to be the best damn mother she could be, and look what she's done? she's an amazing woman. she taught me that i could be who i wanted, and now look at me! i'm on the all out of hardcore tour with my band. dream come true. i wasn't the problem child or anything, i respected momma too much for that. i was decent enough in school, didn't get into trouble, didn't do stupid shit. pretty much, it was just me and my drumsticks. she just taught my to be my own person, do what i wanted to do.

back to you, now. what makes you smile on a rainy day? what are some things that you just love?

when i was little, i daydreamed about the day when i would be standing on a stage in front of a crowd waiting to hear my music. that was my solstice. now, i don't have to daydream. [smiles] i can just write. i can tell my story and maybe inspire someone to live their dream. without these guys, i'd be back in plymouth, california, still dreaming. the guys all laugh at me for it, but i have a cat obsession. andy, he's my little black kitten who i love to death. and like i said earlier, [shrugs] i do everything big. honestly, life just makes me happy. the stupid things that make me laugh are the things no one understands. then again, the really obvious things aren't that bad either, you know? sex.. always makes things better. have a bad day? sex: the insta-cure. but please! use protection. yeah, that's my little promotion, there. and monster energy drinks. you'll rarely find me without one.

what about stuff you don't like so much? what scares you? what frustrates you?

the easiest way to make an enemy out of me would be to shove your beliefs down my throat. i am not religious. i do not abstain. i drink a bit too much. i break rules. i'm not perfect and don't tell me that the way you live is the way to go. if someone is going to come at me with their opinions and not listen to mine, i'm going to tune you out immediately. i can't stand being told that i'm inferior, not good enough. there's nothing worse than telling someone that they can't do something or that they can't have something. everyone in the goddamn world deserves to be told that they are beautiful and that they are loved. you can do anything you want. assholes are the lowest of the low, to me. do not tear someone down just to make yourself feel better. what purpose does it serve you to do that to someone else? [sighs] i hate hate and yes, i know i just made a hypocritical statement.

let's talk about your love life. what's going on with that?

i'm not the relationship kind of guy. in fact, i never have been. i've just never been able to put in the effort to have one. i just stick to the "casual encounters" with whomever i please. i don't really claim a sexuality, because people are just people. sure, we've got different parts and.. maybe some people have.. surprises, but when it comes down to it, no one is less a person than anyone else. so, it's pretty much just lost of random sex on my part. safe sex, though. always.

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